Coaching is what you go looking for when you recognize that something in your life isn't working the way that you want it to and you can't figure out how to change that certain thing on your own.
Coaching can be about changing the known and it can be about exploring the unknown.
At the core of any personal change is the willingness to not believe what your history is trying to have you believe.
As of September 1, 2025, Kraye (I) is moving into the “elder-phase” of his coaching. Having spent the month of August not coaching, and not being on social media, I’ve realized that there are other things that I prefer doing. What does that mean for you, the person who wants to engage with me as a coach? Simply put, I’m going to be much harder to get to and I’m going to be more pointed in my coaching. The harder-to-get-to involves using Ryan Katz as a firewall. To get to me, Ryan has to ok it. Your opinion about that matters not at all. Do not send me messages about wanting to work with me. Track down Ryan on FB (or some other way) and talk to him. If he agrees, he will tell me to set up a one-hour call with you. During the call, you’ll tell me what you want to work on. It will be thumbs up or thumbs down. If it’s thumbs up, then we’ll agree on a package of some sort. You’ll pay for it and off we go. For Hang, same deal. Once a week, Thursdays, from 1900 - 2100 EST. You have to get Ryan’s ok. When Ryan has told me that you are in, I’ll add you to the FB Hang group. I’ll post the link there some minutes before the Hang starts. If you don’t go through Ryan, you’re not invited. Plain and simple. I don’t think I’ll ever hold another Immersion but I’ve been incorrect with plenty of forecasts. If you want an Immersion to happen, talk to Ryan.
Kraye as Coach
Coaching starts with two sets of variables: one, your current set of beliefs and skills about the thing you're wanting to change and two, the new set of beliefs and skills you'll need to get to where you want to go.
There's one person, one major concern, and usually only one point-of-view as to what is going on. Though there may be input from an external source motivating the desire for change.
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Dojo
Dojo is not the “truth” about anything, especially about what it is to be human. It’s one place to explore and practice one orientation to what it is to be human. Imagine that you are a student of one form of martial arts and this is your opportunity to see what another school is about.
Dojo is a make-believe place. Within Dojo, we put aside our normal understandings of what it is to be human and step into another way of being human.